Acing A Woman’s Tests… And Testing Her

June 26, 2008

Women love testing the men they’re with. Sometimes they do it to figure out what a guy’s thinking. Other times, they do it just to see how a guy responds. Unfortunately, most men never develop the skill to handle these tests in a way that keeps the girl off-guard. That lack of skill gives women power they don’t deserve. So, I’m going to show you how to deal with a woman’s tests. If you handle things the way I show you, you’ll not only be able to deal with these inane tests but you’ll also discourage her from trying it again.

Cranking Up The Tension

You’re out to dinner with a hot girl. All of a sudden, she looks at you and says, “You know, if you play your cards right, I may go out with you again.”

Most guys actually grow hopeful when they hear this. Some may even say, “Really? Great!”

Listen. The girl is testing you. It’s her way of getting some control. If you let her, she’ll run with it. So, here’s your chance to rip the control out of her hands, build a bit of sexual tension with some verbal jousting and make sure she understands the situation. Tell her, “The way you’re playing your hand, it’s not looking good for you. But, if you behave, I may give you another chance.”

She won’t expect it because most other guys don’t have the balls or training to do this.

Dealing With Ex-Talk

Some women will test you by talking about an ex-boyfriend or past lover. Amazingly, most guys will listen, nod their heads, pretend to care and then wonder why they’re not getting to first base (much less home plate) with the girl. The reason is very simple: they’re not controlling the situation. The solution is even simpler: be direct and nip it in the bud quickly.

When you’re out with a hot girl and she starts talking about her ex, you need to stop her immediately. The longer you let her go on, the more control you lose. Tell her, “Listen, I’m not one of your girlfriends. I don’t know the guy. I don’t care about the guy. If you want to talk about one of your exes, call one of your friends. If you want a chance with me, you’ll have to do better than that.”

You’re dealing with two problems at the same time. First, any mention of an ex-boyfriend is going to prevent you from getting to the next step with this girl. So, you’re eliminating him quickly. Second, you’re letting the girl know she’s on thin ice and she’d better behave if she wants to see you again.

That kind of confidence is rare. It tells the woman that you know what you want and you’re willing to take action to get it. That creates enormous attraction and desire in girls. The next time you go out with her, she’ll think twice about being so thoughtless.

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