Flying Solo And Attracting Women
The number one reason guys fail at meeting women and making it past the first drink is because they have no clue how to create attraction. They lack confidence and that kills their chances. We’re going to fix that problem right now. So, let’s jump in.
Leaving Your Buddies Behind For The Mission
You’ve heard of using a wingman when you’re picking up girls, right? Girls rarely go anywhere alone. They take friends along. A wingman is there to deflect the girl you don’t want, so your target isn’t distracted. Some guys swear by the wingman strategy. I suggest you avoid it and here’s why.
If you want to learn how to attract women (and I’m not talking about getting them to LIKE you), you need confidence. If you keep using a wingman, you’ll get used to having that support and you’ll never develop the confidence to fly alone.
The only reason you should use a wingman is if he’s better than you with women. In that case, let him fly lead while you watch and learn. Otherwise, leave your wingman behind. This is a solo mission.
Don’t Bother With Approval
It makes my blood curdle whenever I hear a guy worrying about whether some girl likes him. That’s what girls do, not men. If you do this, walk into your bathroom, look in the mirror and slap yourself. Let me make this clear for you. It doesn’t matter if a girl LIKES you. What matters is whether she’s drawn to you. You have to make her feel attraction. “LIKE” comes later (if you decide to stick around for it).
Too many guys trip themselves up, worrying about whether a girl likes them. It’s a tragedy. Forget about it and get back to the business of drawing girls to you like bees to honey.
Knowing When To Bail Out
Here’s a quick tip for the guys who have lost the attention of a girl that once had the hots for them. If you’ve been chasing some girl and she suddenly loses interest, you’re finished. Done. And here’s why… whatever spark was there in the beginning is gone. You can’t light it up again. Cut your losses and bail out. You’ll have a far easier time meeting someone new and starting fresh than trying to salvage a wreck.
Knowing What Attracts Women
Drawing women to you is all about making them feel attracted to you. It has nothing to do with how much they “LIKE” you. It’s about having the confidence to take charge of a situation and create a feeling of attraction in her head. You control how strong that feeling of attraction is. So, forget about getting the girl to “LIKE” you and focus on developing the skills to draw them to you like a magnet.
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knowing when to bail is a good one. it can be hard when you dig the lady but it must be done.