Getting Rid Of Your Inner Wuss

June 30, 2008

I’m not sure when it happened. At some point, guys started acting like wusses around women. Maybe it has always been the case. Maybe cavemen acted the same way. But, these days, men practically wear it like a badge of honor. They feel they’re actually more attractive to women if they act like a wuss around them. Millions of guys focus all of their brainpower on how they can come across as sweet and thoughtful, thinking the girl will fall head over heels for them.

It’s no wonder that most of these guys are frustrated sexually.

I’ve said this before, but it’s worth saying again: women don’t want wusses as sexual partners. They may want them around as friends because wusses treat women like queens, but nothing more than that. So, for the men who are reading this and battling with their inner wusses, it’s time to regain control and confidence.

Why “Like” Matters Less Than Attraction

Here’s the fallacy that drives a lot of men to become wusses: they want women to like them. They think being sweet will make that happen. And they’re right. In a lot of cases, that’s exactly what happens. Women start to like them. It’s a foregone conclusion. Think about it. What is there for a woman not to like? Here’s a guy who’s thoughtful, caring, buys them stuff and holds doors open for them.

But, there’s a major problem here. Getting a woman to “like” you doesn’t even get you a ticket to the game. “Like” is irrelevant. If you really want a girl to give you the time of day, you need her to feel attracted to you. That’s what creates the spark of excitement in a relationship. Attraction is what makes a girl want to be around you. It’s what makes them think about you every hour of the day. Women don’t feel that attraction for wusses.

Moving On Without Your Inner Wuss

If you’re acting like a wuss around a girl you like, you’ve probably destroyed your chances of making anything happen. It’s almost impossible to go from wuss to hero in a woman’s eyes. Your best option is to figure out what you did wrong and move on. You need to realize how your giving up control (i.e. becoming a wuss) has a negative effect on how women feel about you. Once you realize what’s happening, you’re more likely to do something about it.

Make the decision to move on without your inner wuss. It’s holding you back from having the success you want with women. It repels women. Now, don’t get me wrong. Being sweet and thoughtful are fine. They both definitely have their place. But, if you’re only sweet and thoughtful, you’ll come across as boring and dull. You need to show an edge. You need to display some courage and backbone. That’s what creates attraction in women. And you can’t do that if your inner wuss is calling the shots.

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