How To Go From Meeting To Mating

May 8, 2008

Welcome back. Let’s get right into it.

If you’ve watched other guys talking to the women they meet, you’ll notice something desperate in their style. Even though they don’t use words, their tone, manner and body language are practically screaming “I want to have sex with you!” to the girl.

If you’ve absorbed anything I’ve been teaching you about women, you already know that’s a major turn-off to them. Girls don’t respond to that kind of sexual desperation. They avoid it (and then they tell their friends about it). And that means there are a lot of lonely guys out there.

Now, your goal is still the same. You obviously want to get to a point where you and the girl you’re talking to are having sex. But, being direct about it won’t get you closer to your goal. There’s a formula to how you approach it. It’s a process that stacks the deck in your favor. You need to focus on leading the girl.

Here’s an example…

Assume you meet a hot girl at a club. Before you say the first word to her, you’re going to be thinking about getting her in the sack. Push that thought out of your head. If sex is your entire focus, she’s going to see it in your eyes and body language. So, stop thinking of sex for a moment and think about leading her to sex.

Remember, there are several steps between meeting a girl and having sex with her. Focus on igniting a spark between you both. Create some chemistry. Kiss her a few times and keep talking to her. Now, physically lead her somewhere. It can be to a different part of the club, to the dance floor, or to another club entirely.

This is a powerful step and most guys have no clue how to leverage it. When you lead a woman physically, there’s a potent psychological switch that’s triggered. The mere act of leaving a place and arriving at a different place together has a huge impact on the connection she feels with you. She’ll feel closer to you. She’s more invested in you.

Once you create the chemistry between you and the girl, begin leading her in small steps. Lead her to another part of the club. Keep kissing her and talking with her to maintain the momentum you’ve built. Next, tell her that you’d like to go to another club and you’d love for her to come with you. You’re slowly building the connection she’s feeling.

Now, once you’re at the other club, you can leverage that connection even further. Tell her you’re really enjoying her company. You want to talk to her somewhere a little more private. Ask her to give you a ride home.

Bam! You’re now one step away from the close. If you’ve been stoking the flames by kissing her and talking with her, she’s going to want to join you.

Once she does, the goal is yours to grab.

Popularity: 17% [?]