How To Put The Brakes On A Clingy Woman
When you apply the dating tips that I’ve been sharing with you, you’re eventually going to deal with clingy women. These are girls who call you several times a day, want to see you all the time and send you random text messages throughout the evening. In some cases, it gets so bad that they’ll begin following you around when you’re with other girls. The fact is that when you become a master of creating desire and attraction in a girl, some of them won’t be able to stop themselves.
Now, you may be grinning to yourself and thinking, “What a horrible problem to have… a bunch of hot chicks following me around and wanting more of me.” But, take my word for it. The problem is only fun for a day or two. After that, it gets old. Fast. When this happens to you (and it will if you keep doing the things I’m showing you), you must put a stop to it quickly.
Dealing With A Clingy Girl
When a hot girl starts becoming a nuisance by calling, texting and following you around, sit her down and be direct with her. Tell her, “You’re a great girl. And I have fun when we’re hanging out. But, we’re not married. And I don’t want an exclusive relationship right now. So, if you want to keep hanging out, you’ll need to relax a little.”
A lot of the guys who follow my advice have to deal with hot girls being clingy. But, they still have trouble being direct like this. You need to set the expectation with the woman. Tell her what you will and won’t put up with. Chances are, she’s going to do whatever she has to in order to spend time with you. Even if that means chilling out and waiting for you to call her.
There’s something psychological that’s happening here, too. When you tell the girl that she can’t have what she wants, it drives her crazy. Most women are like this. And you can leverage it simply by setting the expectation that you don’t want her stalking you and taking away the very thing (you) that she wants the most.
When you do this the right way, she’ll do whatever you ask just to have more of you.
Why It’s Necessary
If you’ve never been direct like this with a clingy girl before, you’re going to feel like you’re being cruel. You’re not. Get that thought out of your head. In reality, you’re doing the best thing for both you and the woman who’s crazy about you.
First, you need breathing room. There are too many hot women to be tied down to just one. Having someone trailing you and being a nuisance can be annoying, no matter how hot she is. Second, you’re preventing the girl from making a fool of herself (or a bigger one, at least). She won’t see it that way (don’t expect her to thank you), but that’s what you’re doing.
So, if you’re getting so good at the cocky, funny, teasing approach of talking to women that they’re starting to be clingy, put a stop to it fast. Be direct and set the expectation. You’ll likely find that they’ll be waiting for you when you want them.
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Men with that mindset turn most women off…While there are too many “Hot”women for a guy to be tied down to one,there are some guys who are serious about dating and are interested in dating “one woman” for the time being.If a guy is truly interested in a woman he’ll date her and her only….but if he’s not “that into her” or is a “player”he’ll date other women at the same time..Many times I’ve seen women do exactly the same thing some guys do by dating other men and be classified as “game players” by the same men who’ve dated multiple women at the same time…why is this?…….because If this is the mind set of most men then in that case women should not have any sexual contact what so ever with these men unless their married.
great article.