Igniting The Fire That Attracts Women

February 18, 2008

Women are attracted to guys that seem exciting to them. Boring doesn’t win the night. You’ve heard girls talking about “chemistry,” right? They’re always looking for someone they have “chemistry” with. Well, here’s a little secret… Chemistry is nothing more than their perception of how they feel around you. And, you control how they feel around you.

If you want to be dull, don’t expect big results. But, if you’re willing to dig in, show that you have a pair and take charge, you can basically guide a first meeting, a conversation, or a promising night in any direction you choose. I’ll give you an example.

Getting Physical

Let’s say you’ve met someone and you’re spending time together. Things are going great and you actually like being around her for more than a night. Suddenly, she says she wants to take things slowly. Guess what just happened. Chances are, you’re not moving fast enough. She’s probably into you and you haven’t made your move. Listen, once she’s into you, you can take the night as far as you want. Show some fire and go the distance.

Taking The Bull By The Horns

Here’s another example of getting a fire going. You’re at a club or bar (wherever you like to pick up girls). You see someone across the room. She looks at you. What do you do? Most guys, believe it or not, look away. For whatever reason, they wuss out. Hey, their loss is your gain, right? It’s time to do what most guys won’t. Get off your chair, go over and start talking to the girl. It shows you’ve got a pair. It shows some fire. And guess what… you’re already in a position that other guys never reach (as crazy as that sounds). Now, it time to stoke the fire.

Add A Little Cockiness

Girls like a little challenge, even if they don’t realize it. When you meet a girl, play and tease her a little. It’ll catch her off-guard and keep her guessing about you. Plus, they love to be teased because it caters to their desire for attention. How do you tease her? Be funny but be a little cocky, too. If you’re just funny without the cockiness, you’re just… well, funny. That’s “friend” material. There’s no fire in “funny.” So, tease her about what she’s wearing, her hair, her shoes. Anything that throws her gently off her game. It’ll make your game easier to play.

Avoiding The Fizzle

Now you know what it takes to add a little fire to your game. Get things started by getting off your butt and actually talking to the girl. Then, mix in a little cockiness to stoke the fire. Finally, when she’s turned on by the spark, go for the takedown. Anything less and it’ll all have been for nothing.

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