Meeting Women Anywhere And Avoiding The Friend Trap

March 16, 2008

Where is the first place you think of when you want to meet women? Probably the club or bar, right? Well, if those are the only places you’re trying to pick up girls, you’re sabotaging yourself. But, I’m here to help. First, let’s talk about other places you should be going to meet girls. Then, we’re going to talk about that “Friend Trap” some of you have somehow managed to fall into.

Women Shop And Read Books, Too

If you know what you’re doing, picking up a girl at a club is simple. But, if your game stinks, you’ll get lost in the crowd of horny guys who are also trying to get her attention. Also, some of the most popular clubs draw the best players in the game, so the competition is stiff (no pun intended).

But, you can skyrocket your success by tenfold by “shopping” for girls where other guys don’t. I’ve met plenty of girls at clubs and bars. But, let me tell you something. I’ve met FAR more at the mall, grocery store, book store and coffee shop. These are the same sexy women who go to the clubs. Remember, girls read and drink coffee, too.

When girls are shopping for magazines or buying groceries, they’re not getting bombarded with horny guys. They’re buying frozen dinners. It’s a perfect opportunity for you to meet girls and have virtually no competition.

Avoiding The Friend Trap

This happens all the time. Guys fall into the trap of listening to the inane ramblings of a girl who has guy troubles, thinking it’ll buy them a chance to score. It’s good to have a goal. But, if you’re not paying attention, you’ll become her sponge. The “friend” whose shoulder she cries on.

So, how do you avoid falling into this trap? First, don’t pretend to be the guy who cares about her guy problems. If you really do care, fine. But, you’re running the risk of crossing into “friend” territory. Instead, be the guy who lights a fire under her. Light the spark of attraction (remember, you control this).

Don’t act like a friend. Don’t even act like her knight in shining armor. You’re not trying to marry her. Just be the attractive solution to her guy problems. If you’ve been taking action on the tips I’ve been giving you, creating attraction will be second nature to you. Do it right and she won’t be able to help herself.

It’s All In The Approach

Meeting and attracting women has always been about your approach. It doesn’t matter if you’re picking up a girl in the frozen food section of your local grocery store or moving on a girl who wants to spill her guts to you. With the right approach, the results are almost always predictable. Start finding hunting grounds that other guys miss. And always avoid falling into the Friend Trap. The rest is just strategy.

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