On The Hunt: Singling The Woman Out From The Herd

February 25, 2008

When you’re trying to pick up a girl, you have to focus on your target. I’ll never understand why some guys screw this up. If a girl’s in a group, they try to talk to the whole group, hoping the girl will like them more. Hey, if you want to be friends with her, go for it. But, if you’re trying to pick her up, you’ll sabotage your chances before you even get started.

But, you’re smarter than that, right? Besides, the way your night turns out depends on how well you hunt. The skilled hunter can single out his prey from the herd. So, how do you get started?

It Begins With Balls

I won’t lie to you. Walking up to a group of people you don’t know just to talk to a girl isn’t easy. It doesn’t come naturally. At least, not at first. But, the reason it’s hard is because most guys never do it (and guess how successful they are in picking up girls). It’s like with anything… the more you do it, the easier it becomes and the better you get. So, when you see a girl in the middle of group, get up and walk over to her. Now, the real fun starts.

Ready, Aim, Talk!

You’re standing in front of her and she’s looking right at you. In fact, her entire group is staring at you. You can put your tail between your legs and run like most guys would. Or, you can actually say something (guess which choice works best).

There are 2 ways to approach this. First, you can ignore the people in her group. You’re not there for them anyway. Get right into your game and talk to the girl. Or, you can do the opposite. You’ve already established eye contact with the girl. She knows you’re interested. Now, ignore her and focus on a couple of her attractive friends. She’ll actually begin to work for your attention. You’ve begun the game of…

Playing Cat And Mouse

Girls want affirmation. They want the security of knowing that those around them actually approve of them. That’s true not only of their friends, but the want the approval of complete strangers, too (that’s you). That can be your ace in the hole if you use it right. The trick is to let her know you’re interested without lavishing attention on her. Guys screw this up all the time. They treat the girl like she’s something special. And it destroys their chances.

Getting The Girl Takes Backbone

If you want to be successful with women, you need to do what other guys won’t. For whatever reason, guys today have turned into wimps who can’t imagine talking to a girl. Listen, a girl is nothing special. So, single her out, get some courage, walk over and try to separate her from the herd (if she’s with one). If you do those things, your success with women will skyrocket.

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