Taking Control And Grabbing Attention

April 6, 2008

Despite what a lot of wannabe players think, succeeding with women has nothing to do with manipulating them. Plenty of men fool themselves into thinking that they need to lie and cheat in order to attract women. But, that’s a short-term solution that rarely works. In fact, the path to success is littered with the carcasses of guys like that.

Instead, evicting the coward inside, taking control and showing a little courage and personality almost always works. Unfortunately, a lot of men have a problem doing these things. So, let’s dive in and fix the problem.

Cowardice Is Lonely

When you see a sexy girl, do you walk up and talk to her? If not, it’s probably because you’re intimidated for some reason. You need to understand that most things are intimidating simply because they’re new. If you said something to every girl that walked past you, you’d get accustomed to it and wouldn’t feel intimidated at all.

The next time you see a pretty girl, say something to her (even if you’re not interested). Then, say something to the next girl you see. And the next. Try a little humor. Try a little cockiness. If you bomb, who cares? You’re developing a new skill that you can use whenever you want. The girls are just target practice.

The quickest way to move from coward to courageous is to take control and do the things that intimidate you over and over.

The Attraction Of Leadership

For some strange reason, people have a hard time making decisions. They’d rather follow than lead. Naturally, guys who can take charge, make decisions and lead stand out from the pack of followers. Guys like that make girls feel secure. Girls are drawn to leaders. Hell, even guys are drawn to leaders. It’s universal.

Obviously, being a leader means evicting the inner coward. But, like anything, the more you do it, the easier it becomes. The big bonus is that you’ll be sexier to the women around you (watch as they start to gravitate towards you). Women have always found the ability to take control and lead attractive.

How Jealousy Motivates A Woman

Here’s a quick way to grab attention without even trying hard. Women naturally want what other women have. They’re competitive. That’s why they get riled up when they see another girl talking to a guy they want. Not only does it provide some weird social proof that you’re desired by other women, but it makes you seem even sexier as a hot commodity. You don’t need to go out of your way to make a girl jealous. Trust me, if you’re talking to other women when she’s around, she’ll notice faster than you can say, “what’s your name?”

Courageous Or Cowardly

If you have a coward inside, it’s time to serve the eviction papers. He’s holding you back from meeting a ton of beautiful girls. Kick him out and start learning how to take control, make decisions, lead and grab the attention you want. Walking up to a sexy girl takes courage once. The second and third times are much easier because you’re getting used to doing it. After the fourth time, you’re practically on autopilot. Remember, cowards are lonely. The brave get the girls.

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