The Cocky/Funny Approach To Being Successful With Women
Today, I’m going to let you in on a little secret. It’s literally the “one-two” punch of meeting women and getting them to want more of you. You’re going to use a combination of being cocky and funny while throwing in a few negative jibes. If you’ve never done this before (or never learned to do it properly), you’ll be blown away at how effective it is. Girls melt over this stuff.
A quick word of caution before we get started: one without the other gets you zero. Being funny without cockiness puts you disastrously near “wuss” territory. Being cocky without humor makes you seem like a jerk. Learn to use both and you’re primed for success with girls.
Learning The Cocky/Funny Approach
The first thing you need to know is that people aren’t born funny. They learn to be funny. So, if your personality makes girls fight to stifle their yawns, watch a few videos of comedians. You can learn to be funny. Whenever you think of something funny, write it down so you can use it later.
The 2 best ways to learn how to be cocky and funny at the same time are watching other guys who have mastered the technique. Once you watch them do it, try it yourself. Very few guys actually know how to be cocky and funny at the same time. So, when you notice someone doing it well, take notes. Then, get some experience. Approach a hot girl who’s alone and say, “You’re probably thinking you shouldn’t have worn that outfit, but it doesn’t look too bad on you.” Say it with the hint of a grin.
If you don’t nail it the first time, keep doing it over and over with different women. The more experience you get, the better you’ll become.
How To Use Negative Hits To Create Desire
Girls love attention and affirmation. When they wear an outfit, pair of shoes, or piece of jewelry, they want others to approve. What they DON’T expect is a cocky and funny guy who actually makes fun of them. Negative hits blend perfectly with the cocky/funny routine. Here’s how it works…
Focus on something about the girl to whom you’re talking. Maybe it’s her hair, makeup, the way she talks, or something she’s doing. Make fun of her in a playfully abrasive way. For example, if you’re at a club and a hot girl adjusts her outfit at her waist, say something like, “Damn, if you’ve got a wedgie, maybe you should do that in private.”
It’ll catch her completely off-guard. The hotter she is, the more effective this comment can be. She won’t be used to guys saying something like that to her. It’s a little embarrassing for her. But, it’s refreshing and curious, too. Believe it or not, this is a great first step to creating desire.
Learn how to be cocky and funny with girls. Deliver a few negative jibes to keep them off-guard. But, keep it playful. You’ll be surprised at how attracted girls are to this kind of personality.
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From a woman’s point of view, I have to agree with this! It happened to me recently. A guy where I work was always telling jokes, it was in his his nature, but he did have a serious side - which I found out at a later time.
One day when I came to work, he said, “Oh, hello Rachel, I didn’t recognise you with your clothes on!” I was sort of shocked, but it made me laugh too, even though I got some strange looks from the other members of staff. I’m saying no more, except it works like a charm!