The Pickup Pro’s Guide To Meeting Women

March 10, 2008

Okay, I realize some of you are still having trouble meeting women (even though you should be a pro after reading my articles here and getting off your butts and taking action). You don’t really have an excuse because I’m laying everything out for you. So, let’s talk about a few things that you guys have asked me about.

Experience Breeds Success

Apparently, some of you think that reading those self-help books will make you more successful with the ladies. Now, let me explain the danger of relying on those books. First, reading about how to be confident doesn’t make you confident. That should be a no-brainer. Those books will make you book smart. That’s all. You’ll still be street dumb without…

… experience.

Experience is the best mentor you can have (besides me, of course). The best way to become more confident in meeting women is by meeting women. You do it over and over and over. Who the hell cares if you get shot down? You’re a man. Getting shot down is part of the territory, so get used to it.

Bottom line… you want to be successful in meeting girls? Put the self-help crap down and go meet some girls. It doesn’t get much simpler.

Using A Girl’s Competitive Nature

Let’s talk about girls, jealousy and why it makes you attractive. You can use this to your advantage without actually being manipulative. Here’s how it works…

When you talk to girls, other girls notice. They start wondering what makes that other girl want to talk to you. It makes you interesting to them. You can be the biggest schmuck in the world. They see other girls talking to you and THEY want to talk to you (they always seem to want what other girls have).

So, if you want to meet someone, try to talk to as many girls in eyesight as possible. Chances are, you’ll get her attention and she’ll start working for yours. Funny how that works.

Attraction Rules The Day

If you’ve been paying attention, you’ll understand the meeting women and being successful with them isn’t about “chemistry” or any other silly emotion or feeling. It’s about what you make a woman think about and feel when she’s around you. In other words, you control everything. What you say, what you do, how you act… everything is under your control.

It’s very simple. If you want to gain confidence in meeting women, start meeting more women. If you want to get a girl interested in you, leverage her competitive nature. You control these things. Leave all of that other stuff about “chemistry,” romance and lifelong love alone.

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