The Trick To Meeting Women Online
Most guys get frustrated trying to meet women online. Their emails get ignored, their profiles get passed by and they can’t seem to generate any interest from girls. But, the problem is staring them in the face: it’s their approach that’s killing their chances.
Women are the same online as they are in person. They’re driven by the same curiosity and desires. The attraction they feel toward certain men is generated by the same things. The only thing that changes online is how you create this curiosity, desire and attraction in the women you’re meeting.
By The Numbers
If you think the women on dating websites are receiving the same number of emails as you are, you’re wrong. Chances are, the hot girls are receiving 50 or 60 (or more) emails each day. Most of them have headlines that say, “You’re hot,” “I think you’re cute,” or “I like dogs, too.” Now imagine that you’re on the receiving end of 50 to 60 emails a day with those headlines. It won’t take long for you to start deleting them without even reading them. So, how do you get the attention of a woman online?
Girls Like A Challenge
Your email has to stand out like a flare. When you see a hot girl online, send her an email with a headline that says, “It sounds like you’re lying…” or “I’ll bet you don’t look like that anymore…” First, this type of headline will get her attention. When she’s deleting all of the boring emails from other guys, she’ll open yours. She’ll want to know who has the nerve to say something like that to her. Second, this is the perfect opening to start showing a cocky and funny attitude to her.
Forget about mentioning how your values are the same, how you like to read and the other boring tripe that other guys actually think works. You know better. Girls want a challenge. Your email’s headline gets you in the door. In the actual email, make fun of her profile. Say something like, “You like to travel, read and laugh. C’mon, so does everyone else. What are you really like? Sell me on calling you and I just might.”
Compared to the other emails that most hot girls get from knuckleheaded guys on dating websites, your email challenges them. It stands out. It’s not boring, weak, or fake. It’ll be nearly impossible for her to ignore. She’ll feel like she has to respond to you if only to get the last word. And once she does, you’ll have gotten further than 95% of the other guys.
Be cocky. Be funny. Be challenging. It works like a charm in getting to the next step: meeting these women in person.
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Actually, that’s what another 50 or 60 e-mails of her day look like - the boring challenge she has no incentive to accept. Being creative helps, though.